Chaotic Minerva

We always try to make sure that our weaknesses aren't displayed to others, but some way or the other they just get revealed and make us regret on our actions. According to me, the biggest weakness ever and the most difficult task as well- is to keep our calm. Why do you think then, that anger management is such an important aspect when it comes to personality grooming? I adore those who are able to do it with great ease. However, it isn't easy for everyone. When you lose your calm in front of someone else, the situation gets super awkward and this some time even ruins relationships, take it from me; a careless, short tempered person. I hardly think about the other persons' point of view or the repercussions of my actions. It gets so difficult to accept an action of someone else that you wouldn't like, which leads to loss of temper; atleast for me . And what happens then? The other person just gets to see a side of yours that you definitely wouldn't like to dis...

It's funny how everyone around me manages to keep things to themselves and never express because hey, they don't want you to judge them on what their "real" self would be like. Keep in mind: I'm not denying the fact that we don't have different sides to our personalities and would definitely not want others to know what our sides are.  Why am I oppressing something that is natural to a lot of people? Well, I always lived in an environment where secrets never existed, that's super obvious when you're around people you grew up with. Having migrated to another place five months ago, I see a different side of the world- different perspectives. It doesn't serve me any good. It's like a meek cat being introduced to a pack of lions- it's the same family, yet very different in features and behavior. In the past five months, I've seen people having low self esteem- those who want to change themselves to probably be in the good books of the...