Keep calm? Pfft.

We always try to make sure that our weaknesses aren't displayed to others, but some way or the other they just get revealed and make us regret on our actions.
According to me, the biggest weakness ever and the most difficult task as well- is to keep our calm.
Why do you think then, that anger management is such an important aspect when it comes to personality grooming? I adore those who are able to do it with great ease.
However, it isn't easy for everyone. When you lose your calm in front of someone else, the situation gets super awkward and this some time even ruins relationships, take it from me; a careless, short tempered person.
I hardly think about the other persons' point of view or the repercussions of my actions.
It gets so difficult to accept an action of someone else that you wouldn't like, which leads to loss of temper; atleast for me. And what happens then? The other person just gets to see a side of yours that you definitely wouldn't like to display to anybody at all. Later, you spend days, or even months regretting your act of anger because hey, you can't do ANYTHING about it.

It looks like it's easier to express anger than to control it, which is hundred percent true. But keeping in mind the aftermath, it's so much better to control anger than ruining relationships and having weird situations around.

Looking at it optimistically, anger management isnt very difficult. It's just like a chicken dinner in PUBG; you need the right armour, knock off the enemies ie. all your anger and crouch to safety when the required situation comes up.

All said than done, look whose talking. I need to work on my battleground first. Toodles for now!

Kalyani



Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

so long

So how much sad did you think I had, Did you think I had in me? How much tragedy? Just how low did you think I'd go? Before I'd self-implode Before I'd have to go be free You swore that you loved me but where were the clues? I died on the altar waiting for the proof You sacrificed us to the gods of your bluest days And I'm just getting color back into my face I'm just mad as hell cause I loved this place For so long Had a good run A moment of warm sun But I'm not the one I know we won't wait  but I'm going to grow up and come find you so long, love of my life
Read more

मेरे प्यार को तुम मिटा ना सकोगे

मुझे तुम नज़र से गिरा तो रहे हो मुझे तुम कभी भी भुला ना सकोगे ना जाने मुझे क्यों यक़ीं हो चलाअ है मेरे प्यार को तुम मिटा ना सकोगे मेरी याद होगी, जिधर जाओगे तुम, कभी नग़मा बन के, कभी बन के आँसू तड़पता मुझे हर तरफ़ पाओगे तुम शमा जो जलायी मेरी वफ़ा ने बुझाना भी चाहो, बुझाअ ना सकोगे कभी नाम बातों में आया जो मेरा तो बेचैन हो-हो के दिल थाम लोगे निगाहों पे छायेगा ग़म का अंधेरा किसी ने जो पूछा, सबब आँसुओं का बताना भी चाहो, बता ना सकोगे मेरे दिल की धड़्कन बनी हैइ जो शोला सुलगते हैं अरमाँ, यूँ बन-बन के आँसू कभी तो तुम्हें भी ये अहसास होगा मगर हम ना होंगे, तेरी ज़िन्दगी में बुलाना भी चाहो, बुला ना सकोगे
Read more

half a heart

the car slowly got smaller and faded into nothingness, as my heart was sinking  the best four days ever came to an end. i guess this is what happens when you love someone, and they're not always around our lives are centered around 'when are we meeting next' the longing and the anticipation- most days exciting, some days frustrating  and when the time finally came, nothing else mattered nothing. his arms became my home for those four days, something we yearned for months, brightened up my soul like some weird neural signal  and suddenly, as the car disappeared, this feeling of emptiness dawned upon me: "i feel like, half my heart was just ripped out of my body without my permission and i feel tears trickling down my cheek which are full of memories from a love story to last a lifetime, once again holy shit, is that what it means when people say their soulmate completes them?" because i would do anything ANYTHING to stare at those beautiful brown eyes   to rest m...
Read more